I Chose To Live, Than Commit Suicide Over A Man or Marriage – Ure Okezie As Her Second Marriage To Pastor Silas Briyork-Newman Crashes.

Queen Ure Okezie.

She was formerly married to musician, EMMANUEL OKOSUN, popularly called, Soul-E and the marriage crashed with all the controversies that followed it and she moved on.

Ure Adaku Okezie, popular called, Queen Ure, is one of the most beautiful hearts you can ever find, but being lucky with finding a man to call her own has been one of her major challenges of the century.

Boys of different background had dealt with and taken advantage of her very fragile soul, to either dupe  or make away with her properties, infact, at some point, one was living with her and from her house, traveled to marry another woman in the village after telling her he was traveling to see his sick parents and collected huge amount for logistics from her.

What some of us don’t understand is why people with Queen Ure’s kind of heart don’t get to find men who would love them equally, but men who wish to take advantage of her for as long as the union lasts, but this crash still does not erode her person in anyway possible. She is a woman with the best hearts of Gold.

On her wedding day.

THESE WERE WHAT SHE WROTE ABOUT HER CRASHED SECOND MARRIAGE.

"He committed suicide because his wife left him! I wish he had tried to look at the situation a bit differently. I don't know what you're going through right now but truly there's always something good in every ugly situation. Most of you saw my wedding photos barely a year ago, I was happy, I thought that finally God had answered my prayers, a widowed pastor with 4 very young lovely kids, so Wifey and Mummy all at once.

I packed all my load and relocated to Gwagwalada. We didn't date, I took the chance based on recommendation as I was 45 going to 46. The guy showed me nwii as in, if not that my father drummed it in my ear that I'm a Queen, I would have thought I was an outcaste, every month he would tell me to pack my things and go that I'm not submissive, that a good wife will submit all her money and her body. I was submitting the body o but he wanted the thing everyday. I was not submitting the money but I was willingly and generously looking after everyone as he didn't have any source of income. (The Church was new).

You're wondering why I would marry a man with 4 children that doesn't have shishi? The good values we were brought up with hasn't left us, some of us still believe in love and small beginnings, I wasn't desperate not at all. Anyway onye awusa chirim onu n'ala and finally "broke the marriage" when I insisted I wouldn't make him a director of my company nor a signatory to the account yet. He may not be such a terrible man just a man with a different view of marriage from mine.

This was my 2nd marriage. I will now come and kill myself? To say that I'm not heart broken I'll be lying but to think that is the end of the world mbanu, for what? Instead of suicide, I'll kukuma do wedding number 3.

I turned 47 last August ...no child, no husband, doesn't sound good but I'm alive and healthy, that's a testimony.

For the records I never cheated on him, never contemplated it."