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| Ada Uburu & her now, former, |
A lady by name, Ada Uburu has called off her own marriage, which is supposed to happen on Saturday, the 16 of April and gave her reasons.
She took her time to explain exactly why she is calling off the marriage, even a few days before the time.
She wrote; Hello Guys!!!I never wanted to bring this here but I have to, I am a type of person who likes to keep my relationship away from social media but this is for clarification purposes.
This was my secondary school classmate who I thought I knew to an extent. On December 28, 2020 he did the 1st and 2nd stage in my family marriage list which bride price happened to be on the 2nd stage which he paid. After he paid my bride price he started maltreating me.
2021 was hell for me that at some point I left home, after everything we settled around November 2021 which he promised he will never beat me again. But still nothing CHANGED.
This is my reason why I am CALLING OFF
the Traditional Marriage (Igba Ngwu) and White Wedding ceremony between me and
DAVID OKIKE OFF. (Beating me was not part of the agreement in our Marriage).
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| The Invitation. |
This Saturday should have been my traditional and white wedding ceremony day.... I supposed to be happy but I am not.
For couple of months now I have been going through a lot.
I have been in a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP for OVER a YEAR now.. I am aware that this may be a shock to many people, especially people from my Home Town. My supposed husband HIT and ABUSE me in any slightest provocation, just small misunderstanding without minding what condition I am into.
Because I have chosen ME and I will not live my entire life facing DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. My supposed husband is full of RAGE, BEATING me with his Belt, Stick, Broom is his DAILY ROUTINE, Many a times he had lifted his hammer 🔨 on me and this Monday last week just because of little misunderstanding he beat me mercilessly and on the process of it he rushed into his mother's kitchen for a cutlass, when I noticed he's going for a weapon I locked the door behind him which he forcefully opened, both his mother and Sisters and some neighbors were begging him not to cut me with the cutlass ... With all these things and more I am fed up.
I AM CALLING OFF THE WEDDING AND TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE (IGBA NGWU) BETWEEN ME AND DAVID OKIKE that supposed to hold on this Saturday 16th, April 2022.
Please to my family and friends I am so sorry for any inconvenience this may have caused you 🙏🏿
But I will not end up with a man who always promise that if I didn't kill him, that he will kill me.
I am still suffering from unstoppable headache I sustained from the head injury he gave me 3 weeks ago.
The "bride price paid" will be
Returned in due time. Please Respect my choices. Thanks and God bless you all.
©ADA UBURU
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1 Comments
That was a good decision. The Bible commands men to love their wives as themselves. Which means a wife is the man's body and can a man heat, kick or even pinch himself? No because he will feel pains. So when a man starts beating or maltreating you the wife or girlfriend it simply gives you a red flag, there is no love in the man's heart for you and as such he has no value for you. So as a lady why then will you honour, obey or stick yourself to who does not love you and do not have any value for you? Before you know it, he will send you six feat below the earth and quickly goes for another woman. He has nothing to loose it is you and the family you came from that will loose it all. Be alive, take care of yourself and the man who really loves you will find you and even if no man comes the most important thing is that you keep yourself happy by yourself.
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